After 27 years of careful deliberation, I have come to the conclusion that there is absolutely no statistics or uniform characteristic combinations that make someone hot.
I have taken the time to consider, "Out of people I know or know of, who is really good looking?"
My short list included some famous people, but mostly people I know or have seen in person. The one common trait in these girls is...nothing. Some of them have similarities, but they are each one very unique in their own regard.
Very few have a "textbook" beauty about them, but they are each extremely gorgeous.
The list includes, brunettes, blondes, red-heads, blue-eyes, brown-eyes, green-eyes, fair skin, tan skin, tall short, thin, and rounded...It's hard to explain.
I used to consider myself locked into a certain look, meaning I would expect to date and marry a certain style of girl.
The more I observe, the more I recognize that different styles can be extremely hot as well. There is room for classic, pretty-in-pink, punk, and natural looks.
I guess my main observation is that the look is probably superseded by spirit.
I will repeat this again and say that "looks" are superseded by spirit.
The spirit of a person is merely reflected in a look.
The spirit of a person alters any style that is attempted.
And ultimately the spirit of a person is what makes them hot.
I would guess that the people I am attracted to are not deemed attractive by everyone. Which makes sense. I believe God created each of us with a certain desire that is unlocked in the look, heart, and spirit of one other person.
The only thing I am certain of is that the person that I ultimately find the hottest in the world will be the person God has created for me, and I for her.
Realizing this, I appreciate all of the beauty God has surrounded me with, and I hope that each of my friends find the person they unlock and unlocks them.
What is hot? Its definitely not a definition. Its a state of being...I guess. Who am I kidding, I am no great philosopher, I am just a guy.
Friday, November 05, 2004
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